Ok, deep breath here.

 My passion is to create an inclusive and safe enough space for deeper connection, presence, and love.

My journey was not a carved out linear path and has gotten me to explore everything under the moon from financial literacy in Southern Africa to guiding couples in tantric rituals on Salt Spring Island. My travels, studies, and work have taken me around the world to swim with wild dolphins, eye gaze with elephants, cover my naked body in mud with a group of women, meditate and howl on many full moons, support financial literacy and entrepreneurship in Mozambique & Botswana, and contribute to the social innovation space within the nonprofit and governmental sectors of Canada, among a few other ventures. 

I’m an ecosexual (which is a fancy term for those that have an erotic relationship with nature) that’s passionate about guiding others in their own processes of making love to themselves, to nature, to life. 

If this doesn’t make sense to you, that is totally welcome! This didn’t always make sense to me either, we can talk about it!! 

I’m committed to a new paradigm of sexual expression, ecstatic embodiment, and conscious business.

I’m a Somatic Sex & Relationship Coach on a mission to support individuals and couples in their sex and relationship lives.

Sexuality is breathing, moving, alive and it exists all around us, if we look for it. 

To me, sexuality is creative life force energy that has brought you into existence and creates you and your world in each moment. 

My process and practices became more trauma-informed and less binary.

TANTRA, the word. That led me to trial and error and all these bizarre workshops until I eventually found the right teachers.  

Picture this… In the little Karoo, semi-desert of South Africa, without having any sense of what I was getting into, I went to a women’s retreat and facilitator training called Sexual Awakening for Women. This looked like yelling in the mountains, covering my naked body in mud for the first time, and moving and speaking from my yoni, a Sanskrit word I’d just learned. This was the moment I felt my pussy for the first time and got that whatever healing I did here was healing for all of me.

From that moment, I was committed and devoted to the power of sexual awakening. I was no longer in the role of what I thought sex should look like. On this path, I became a Tantra Yoga Teacher and then a Somatic Sex Educator. My worlds of science, sex, spirit, and trauma-informed approaches merged. 

I tasted the freedom and pleasure possible in saying YES to my aliveness. 

Before long, I read. “try this breath of fire technique to spread more aliveness and energy through your body- this a tantric practice”. 

 I saw holistic & conventional doctors and specialists. Mainly, what I found was a lack of information and guidance around sex and it was really hard to talk about any of it. But, I stayed curious and open-minded. I studied the psychology of sexuality and read anything I could about female pleasure.

I tried everything, at least once.

So we need to take a step back

Some have called me a midwife of programs or an architect of content.

I love helping Visionaries bring their ideas to life and create something that only they can create. 

So when I’m not working as a Sex & Relationship Coach, I’m supporting Leaders and Entrepreneurs in designing and building their Flagship programs to reflect the high caliber of what they are here to offer and the impact they desire to have. Over the past 7 years, I’ve created various manuals, copy-edited books to publish, co-designed online group programs, and helped soulpreneurs create their first offering or next great offering. And, I'm the cheerleader and trusted soundboard when you need one! 

My vision is to see more creators offering their work from an integral and heart-centered place with accessibility, learning-styles, and a trauma-informed approach by design. 

While going deeper into my sex and relationship work, I quickly stepped into the role of supporting my mentors and visionary leaders take their work to the next level, editing their books before publish, and helping them scale their work. I realized one of my gifts: to be a bridge that guides Soulpreneurs & Visionaries in birthing their ideas and visions to life and into writing, manuals, workbooks, online programs, retreats, and more. 

Before I was a sex educator, I was a writer and researcher. I had an academic background in political economy and worked for the public service. Yes, that’s where I had found myself in a disembodied life - even though I loved the people I worked with and was guiding stretch breaks & yoga nidra on lunch breaks to my colleagues. 

And I thought I had exited that world for good…however…

I’m your Right-Hand Woman to support your full expression, whether it’s in your sex life or your Creative work!